A leter from Reba Beard to me
Hi Van
KEY #1 - BEING HAPPY with WHO YOU ARE
...and you ask,"just how do I do that?" Good Question! Life is all about relationships, but, before we can have a successful relationship with others, we MUST get to the place where we are at peace with ourselves and happy with who we were created to be. There are many factors to consider that have gotten us to the place where we are now in life.
As we begin this journey towards having successful winning relationships with others, let us start by looking at some areas in our own lives that perhaps need a little fine-tuning. When we look within ourselves, something happens inside of us. This can be the beginning of change that we so desire in our lives.
Here are the TIPS that I promised you!
TIP #1:
ATTITUDE - a state of mind or a feeling; disposition
My Father says "...be transformed by the renewing of your mind..."
Attitude is everything and is truly one area of life that no one else can control but YOU. Having the right attitude is one of the basics that success requires. Life happens, every day, but the way that you respond to how life treats you is totally determined by you. The process of human change must begin within you.
We hear the terms "positive attitude" or "negagive attitude", but the truth is, we live our lives in one of those two arenas. This is a choice that we make for ourselves every day. Every aspect of our lives is determined by our attitude and the choices that we make daily. With each situation that comes our way, whether good or bad, we choose to rise above it,or we let it bring us down by the way that we allow our feelings to control us. We must learn to control our feelings and not allow our feelings to control us. Caring about ourselves means accepting full responsibility for our own feelings.
Our lives are largely shaped by our attitude. For instance, if we feel that we are not being heard or accepted by others, this could lead to problems with anger. If we have a history of being belitted by others, this could lead to problems with low self-esteem. Loneliness and isolation can lead to fear of rejection by others. And the list goes on.
We must always remember that we are "fearfully and wonderfully made". If we really desire to change, look up, and take each moment as a beginning. We pull ourselves up by our bootstraps, take this moment that we are given - moment by moment, not day by day or week by week. We determine to have a positive attitude about our situations in life, however difficult, one step at the time.
It is extremely important that we allow the COURAGE that is deep within us to rise to the top, which will allow us to make changes that we need to make from within. So, pull from within the courage that you need to walk forward with a POSITIVE ATTITUDE! You CAN do it - one step at the time.
Thanks, and keep watching for TIP #2.
Here's to your success!
Warmest Regards,
Reba Beard
Successful Winning Relationships
Hi Van
KEY #1 - BEING HAPPY with WHO YOU ARE
...and you ask,"just how do I do that?" Good Question! Life is all about relationships, but, before we can have a successful relationship with others, we MUST get to the place where we are at peace with ourselves and happy with who we were created to be. There are many factors to consider that have gotten us to the place where we are now in life.
As we begin this journey towards having successful winning relationships with others, let us start by looking at some areas in our own lives that perhaps need a little fine-tuning. When we look within ourselves, something happens inside of us. This can be the beginning of change that we so desire in our lives.
Here are the TIPS that I promised you!
TIP #1:
ATTITUDE - a state of mind or a feeling; disposition
My Father says "...be transformed by the renewing of your mind..."
Attitude is everything and is truly one area of life that no one else can control but YOU. Having the right attitude is one of the basics that success requires. Life happens, every day, but the way that you respond to how life treats you is totally determined by you. The process of human change must begin within you.
We hear the terms "positive attitude" or "negagive attitude", but the truth is, we live our lives in one of those two arenas. This is a choice that we make for ourselves every day. Every aspect of our lives is determined by our attitude and the choices that we make daily. With each situation that comes our way, whether good or bad, we choose to rise above it,or we let it bring us down by the way that we allow our feelings to control us. We must learn to control our feelings and not allow our feelings to control us. Caring about ourselves means accepting full responsibility for our own feelings.
Our lives are largely shaped by our attitude. For instance, if we feel that we are not being heard or accepted by others, this could lead to problems with anger. If we have a history of being belitted by others, this could lead to problems with low self-esteem. Loneliness and isolation can lead to fear of rejection by others. And the list goes on.
We must always remember that we are "fearfully and wonderfully made". If we really desire to change, look up, and take each moment as a beginning. We pull ourselves up by our bootstraps, take this moment that we are given - moment by moment, not day by day or week by week. We determine to have a positive attitude about our situations in life, however difficult, one step at the time.
It is extremely important that we allow the COURAGE that is deep within us to rise to the top, which will allow us to make changes that we need to make from within. So, pull from within the courage that you need to walk forward with a POSITIVE ATTITUDE! You CAN do it - one step at the time.
Thanks, and keep watching for TIP #2.
Here's to your success!
Warmest Regards,
Reba Beard
Successful Winning Relationships
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